the last thing i wanted to say is this ,,, we want the best out our fellow man, no matter the culture or place, american ideologies need not apply; this includes the words that we say to others. while profanity and major religious pejoratives have lost most of their punch, slurs are taken very seriously. they are direct insults to someone for an intrinsic trait. if you are using culture, tradition, or personal lives to validate the use of slurs specifically, it comes off as using argumentative fallacies to validate it. it also allows for actual hateful people to use slurs under those guises which, like i said, is just as bad as using those words yourself. when you are talking to people in real life, actions are more important than the simple words people say, but on the internet and in a tf2 server, all we can judge people by is their words. sprays and custom signs exist, but chat messages are the biggest way people spread hate. in my opinion, if a word marginalizes or insults a specific group, it should be banned; if it doesnt and is seen as simple profanity (fuck, shit, dick), it should be okay. tolerating whatever people say will lead to hate propagating and driving away those less toxic, and you will only cultivate a toxic chat. the only way to be tolerant and accepting is to exercise a certain level of censorship, it is an inevitability to stopping hate